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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 17.06.2025 09:11

How does one succeed in life?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

How did you cope when someone you love, dealing with hyper-independence and trauma, felt they needed space to heal alone? Were you able to support them without overstepping, and did you eventually reconnect? How did that journey unfold?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Making more friends is a goal.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Procrastinates a lot.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

What is a good habit and what is bad one?

Does not procrastinate.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

That's it for today.

In bed, not in music, which is better, a drummer or a bass player?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

What I need from you?

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Ask yourself:

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.